I have been wanting to write about this coincidence – perhaps to help me understand it. It has great significance for me and I am not quite sure why. By sharing it with you I am hoping that its meaning will become clear to me.
I had a woman that I admire very much purchase three necklaces from me several weeks ago on a Thursday. She chose three for herself and one for a friend. Her choices for herself are remarkable because she happened to choose three necklaces that were mine, at least in my mind they were. The trio was part of my “Lettie stash” and they were hidden in my drawer until the day that she purchased them. I had only removed them from my drawer early that Thursday morning. I don’t know why I was compelled to pull them out but I did. To my surprise I would sell not just one but all three of them to Ann of South Carolina…
Obviously I approve of everything I make or I would not take the time to tie all of those tedious knots. It is difficult to part with all of the necklaces because I put a little of myself into each. But these three were special to me for reasons unknown. I had squirreled them away because of an undefined attachment to all three. I was unprepared for the coincidence that was about to unfold later that day. Coincidences are amazing – a friend of mine calls them God’s winks. I love that. I must have noticed his wink at me on that Thursday morning because I pulled these out of my drawer and added them to my basket with all of the others.
I have not known Ann very long but I liked her the first time I met her. She has the most beautiful smile. The atmosphere of a room changes when she walks in for her enthusiasm about everything is contagious. She is lovely and caring and giving. Ann is the sort of person that I envy for her presence. It is large. It is wonderful. She is a role model for the way I would like to live my life. Her generosity is impressive and her compassion for those in need is beyond measure. It pleased me when she expressed an interest in seeing my jewelry and I just happened to have it with me on this particular Thursday because another friend had requested to see it.
I let her look by herself along with her friend and she came back in the store with the piece shown at the top of this post. I had just completed it the day before and as I said – I had made it for moi. I told Ann how pleased I was that she chose the moth because I had intended it be mine but was happy to know that she would have it instead. Then she told me there were two others that she wanted so we went out to my car for her to show me the pair so that I could place them on hold. Well – no hold was necessary for they were not listed in my shop. They had only been symbolically listed as mine. I could not believe that she placed the two shown at the bottom of this post in my hand. I was speechless and at a loss for words to tell her what a coincidence was occurring. I later gave her a hug and stumbled over some words that did not seem to convey how pleased I was at her choices.
My basket has over one hundred necklaces in it and Ann picked the three that had spoken to me because they spoke to her. Unbelievable. As I write this I think it is now clearer to me that I felt I was giving her a little part of myself. She has given so much to me just by being a wonderful example of how to life a life and as I stood there – not knowingly – I was giving a cherished part of myself back to her in gratitude.
I have just discovered that I don’t have a photo of the third necklace but it was faceted labradorite, wood and another vintage religious medal circa 1900. I am glad they all found their way to Ann…and I am thankful as always. I love the coincidences that occur in my life. God remembers that I need a little encouragement every now and then and he winks at me.