Much time is spent pondering why it took me so long to finally figure out what I wanted to do when I grew up. I mean, I am middle aged, and it was only about three years ago that I stumbled onto the right path and believe me – it was a stumble. I did not start making jewelry with the intent to become For Giving Works Jewelry. It sort of just evolved as a result of a conversation on a rainy afternoon with a friend. Now not a day goes by that I don’t pause to give thanks because I am doing what I want and love to do. The satisfaction that comes from making a piece of jewelry that will find its way to someone is indeed wonderful, but the joy that I derive from meeting the people that cross my path because I am For Giving Works is amazing. Here is another joyful connection that was made as a result of the amazing phenomenon that is called social networking.
About two weeks ago I received a telephone call from a very nice and courteous man named Nathan who resides somewhere near Macon. He introduced himself and explained that his mother was in Georgia visiting with him for his birthday which happened to be on that particular day. Nathan went on to explain that his mother had seen my jewelry on Facebook and that they had decided to telephone me upon realizing that they were just 2 hours away
Sometime during our friendly chat I asked the obvious question “Where does your mother live?”. Nathan responded “Southeast Texas”. Cool, I thought, I grew up in that part of Texas. He proceeded to tell me that she was from an area called the “Golden Triangle” that is formed by three small cities – those being Beaumont, Port Arthur and Orange. WHAT! Again, as with the giveaway email about the chickens in my back yard, my head began to spin in disbelief. I could not process what he was saying. This was where I grew up!
“Wait, wait, wait” I shouted while waving my hands at the telephone! I declared my origins to be from the same place and then I heard Nathan say “Mama, you are not going to believe where this woman is from” and then I heard lots of chatter before I found myself on speaker phone. We laughed about the coincidence but I knew it was another “God wink” and that these were people that I should know. We made arrangements to meet for lunch the next day in Vidalia.
Just 24 hours later I was excited to learn that Nathan, his wife and his mother were indeed coming when he called to confirm. We made arrangements to meet downtown. I was waiting for them on the main road into town and merrily led them to a local cafe where we dined al fresco on chicken salad and great conversation. In fact, we were so busy talking that we forgot to pay the bill and were nearly driving away before someone remembered.
To be “found” by such nice people is reason enough to give thanks for my little jewelry business but For Giving Works Jewelry is also about filling my hard wired need to create. I have always had busy hands – ask anyone that knows me. But there is something about being me while simultaneously being For Giving Works that fulfills a deeper need. It’s a hard thing to put into words but I think it has given me definition, confidence, joy and wait, wait, WAIT!
It has connected me to you and that makes me happy. Yes! It does indeed…I am smiling.